5 Tips for Finding the Right Therapist for you.
- Keren Shemesh

- Apr 17
- 2 min read
Updated: Apr 22
As the therapeutic relationship play a significant role in the recovery process, choosing the right therapist for you is essential. With many different schools of therapy and various clinical approaches available, it is helpful to understand your options so you can choose the one that resonates most with you.
Use the following points as a guide when choosing a therapist:
Treatment Approach: Many therapists today use an "eclectic" approach, meaning they draw from various treatment modalities as needed. Common approaches include Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Art therapy, and more. Each offers a unique way for a therapist to support their clients. It is recommended to become a familiar with the basic styles to decide which might best suit your current needs.
Specialization: Some therapists specialize in specific issues such as trauma, depression, or anxiety. Much like seeing a cardiologist for a heart condition, seeing a specialist ensures you receive targeted treatment from someone with advanced training and experience in that specific area.
The Search: Once you have a sense of the approach or specialization you prefer, use these terms in your search engine. Narrowing your focus will make the results much more manageable. Select two or three providers who meet your criteria and reach out to them.
The Preliminary Interview: Many psychologists offer a free 15–20-minute consultation. This is a wonderful opportunity to "interview" your prospective therapist and assess your level of comfort. Before the meeting, review their website as you are likely to find answers to some basic questions. It is also helpful to make a list of your goals and what you hope to gain from treatment.
Note that the preliminary interview is meant to assess "goodness of fit" rather than serve as a full therapy session. Therefore, it is best to avoid sharing overly detailed or potentially triggering personal information at this stage.
In some cases, an interview may reveal that a therapist is not the right fit for your specific needs. If this happens, they may not take you on as a client, but they will often provide alternative referrals to help you find the right support.
Book your spot, or get on their waitlist - If you are feeling unsure, choose someone you most resonate with and give it a try. A combination of knowledge-base decision (checking their credentials) along with trusting your gut is likely to provide good results.
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