To maximize your ability to get help I recommend the following resources:
In case of EMERGENCY dial 911 or go to an ER near you.
To minimize the negative impact divorce can have on you and your family I recommend attending the Divorce Options Workshop. It is FREE and offered in multiple locations: https://www.cpcal.com/divorce-options-workshop/
Family court matters should be addressed by forensics specialists.
The following link lists mental health professional providing such services: https://sccpa.clubexpress.com/content.aspx?page_id=22&club_id=956131&module_id=57218
Autism in children calls for an early and frequent intervention. Adults and children with high functioning autism are often undiagnosed, but report to struggle fitting-in and cueing into social situations.
A.G.E.S. Learning Solutions serve children diagnosed with autism spectrum and their families: https://ageslearningsolutions.com
Autism Speaks provide a wide range of resources for children, adults, and families https://www.autismspeaks.org/
Foundations Psychological Services are located in the Bay Area and provide a wide range of psychological assessments to individuals of all ages. http://www.foundations-psych.com/index.html
Grief and Loss:
Local support for family members who are struggling with grief due to the loss of a loved ones https://kara-grief.org/